Blogs

  • Calling us out – let's not be a prisoner to our CELL phone

    Contrary to The X-Files and the opinions of some of the lunatic fringe, the world is NOT going to be taken over by aliens. The world has already b...
  • When it comes to dealing with depression, let’s do the right thing

    I know very little about Senator Fetterman but he did the right thing! His action of voluntarily checking himself into a hospital to receive help ...
  • Am I a rescuer?

    Rescuers might very well desire to be in relationships with people who are independent, who don’t need their ongoing help. However, subconsciously...
  • Does your marriage function like a parent-child relationship?

    We can also experience a lack of attraction (obviously being married with a pseudo parent-figure isn’t attractive), anxiety, and if it continues f...
  • Honor your parents and reap the rewards of obedience

    The way we treat our parents can be an indicator of the respect we have for God Himself. Others also observe how we treat our parents, including o...
  • Don't neglect proper hygiene – it’s good for you and everyone else

    He appeared to be rushing so I’m assuming he went right back to work. I wanted to yell at him to “get back in here and wash your hands – it’s comp...
  • Dollars and sense: it’s important to take account for money matters

    When one lists the major causes of strife in marital relationships, money is often at or near the top of the list. So often, one spouse is a saver...
  • Don’t bail because there's trouble; be patient in becoming

    Marriage is not for sissies - it can be hard. In our experience as Certified Life Coaches and Christian counselors, Vanessa and I have been privy...
  • Am I my brother’s keeper?

    We live in world with warped values that would make us doubt our worth. The world counts our value through looks and possessions and what it vainl...
  • Move on from holding grudges for your own good and peace of mind

    To hold on to offense does not mean we don’t stand up for what’s right. It doesn’t mean we’re a doormat. It means we know which battles to fight,...
  • Hearts

      God knows my heart – yes, you better believe He does. But do we know His? I have a young friend who often goes back and forth with me because we...
  • You think your husband has erectile dysfunction and your marriage is suffering

    ED has been “in the closet” for far too long – it is past time to take it out and address it just like mental illness that is plaguing our marriag...